The POWER of a Midlife Girls Get Away

As we journey through midlife, our life's responsibilities and priorities can often feel overwhelming. This is when the power of girlfriend getaways comes to the rescue! They serve as a break from our routine lives, providing an opportunity to reconnect with ourselves and our friends, and to embark on a journey of self-discovery.

In Episode 74 of our podcast, we delve into the transformative experiences that the girls get away offers. Tish and I share our adventures, unforgettable moments, and practical tips on planning your own girlfriend or girlfriends getaway. These trips, we found, are ultimate game changers in navigating midlife transitions. And they don’t need to include a large group or even a plane trip! You can keep them local and small or far flung and big - the choice is yours.

I’ve always used these getaways as catalysts for self-discovery. By stepping out of my comfort zone and facing my fears, I am able to foster deeper connections with my girlfriends. And the recent girls get away that Tish and I took with our college friends to the Cayman Islands delivered on all fronts. Whether it was kissing a stingray or swimming with tarpons on my recent trip to the Cayman Islands, each adventure was a step towards self-growth. I am terrified of creatures in the ocean - big and small. So, the idea of both snorkeling and swimming with sting rays (come on Steve Irwin was killed by one for god sakes) was a big leap for me. I felt immense pride in doing both of these - and for my friends support to make it happen.

It's important to note that while adventure is a significant part of these trips, rest and relaxation are equally essential. Amidst the excitement of exploring new places and trying new things, I also found time to rejuvenate, read a book and just hang out and chat with my friends. These restful moments were crucial in helping me navigate recent transitions like empty nesting and a career shift.

Another key aspect of these trips was their role in our midlife empowerment. Indulging in self-care, exploring new places, and creating lasting memories, I found myself connecting with friends and the island on a deeper level. This trip allowed me to unplug from my daily life and relish the joy of simply beautiful sunsets and moments. From playing pickleball to boating, every aspect of the trip contributed to our overall sense of joy and fulfillment.

For me, the most important takeaway from this Cayman’s getaways is the lasting memories I created. From the planning stages to the actual trip, every moment was an opportunity to create a memory that I’ll cherish for the rest of my life. The laughter at the speak easy, the playing of the game Empire every night, and the bonds formed during these trips serve as a constant reminder of the joy and fulfillment that come from stepping out of our comfort zones and embracing the thrill of adventure.

So, if you're dreaming of an escape with your girlfriends, consider planning your own midlife girlfriend getaway. As we have discovered, these trips are not just vacations. They're a journey of self-discovery, a platform for growth, and a source of lifelong memories. And who knows, you might just find your own midlife magic along the way.

-With positivity,

Ellen

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